wondering if any of you have had a similar experience? been seeing a woman for some months now. recently whilst i was sleeping she decided to pick up my phone and check out a whole load of text messages sent and received, ... some dating back over 4 years. she then woke me and angrily demanded to know who was this lady and who was that lady etc etc. even tho there was innocence behind the texts, it was a horrible passage trying to explain their existence. i was/am flabbergasted that ahe would actually invade my privacy to such an extent, .... felt almost as if i`d been burgled. she later apologised profusely and promised she would never do such a thing again. my deep down belief is that trust has been irreparably damaged, a bridge burnt and that i no longer want to see her again, despite liking her very much. she still wants to continue the relationship but i am finding it very difficult to forgive her.
wondering if any of you have had a similar experience? been seeing a woman for some months now. recently whilst i was sleeping she decided to pick up my phone and check out a whole load of text messages sent and received, ... some dating back over 4 years. she then woke me and angrily demanded to know who was this lady and who was that lady etc etc. even tho there was innocence behind the texts, it was a horrible passage trying to explain their existence. i was/am flabbergasted that ahe would actually invade my privacy to such an extent, .... felt almost as if i`d been burgled. she later apologised profusely and promised she would never do such a thing again. my deep down belief is that trust has been irreparably damaged, a bridge burnt and that i no longer want to see her again, despite liking her very much. she still wants to continue the relationship but i am finding it very difficult to forgive her.
Well, HD2000... Going through the phone is a no no. It's a complete invasion of privacy. And it wont end there. Since trust is broken, you can try to rebuild, but it's gonna be extremely hard to do so. So, it's up to you whether you want to go down that road with her.
Today phone texts...tomorrow email...next week she'll be outside your house at 4AM peeping through your window.
Well, HD2000... Going through the phone is a no no. It's a complete invasion of privacy. And it wont end there. Since trust is broken, you can try to rebuild, but it's gonna be extremely hard to do so. So, it's up to you whether you want to go down that road with her.
Today phone texts...tomorrow email...next week she'll be outside your house at 4AM peeping through your window.
Especically... if there was nothing to hide... there wouldn't be a problem with it!!
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
I actually agree with everything you said.
Especically... if there was nothing to hide... there wouldn't be a problem with it!!
hello hd2000 so sorry to hear that she had to go and look, very insecure of her.... I had a s/o who went thru my phone with out my permission, if he would have asked i would have said yes and if you want to know about the person.... I have a few friends who text some pretty wild things.... he told me I could go threw his phone did not... maybe i am a liar I KNOW I AM NOT..... but i have not gone thru another's phone .... i agree it is private, if u don't have anything on there u are ashamed of or have secret pals shame on u u will get caught maybe not by the phone.... my x s/o new all about my friends on the phone infact i showed some of the things i was sent so no secrets..... Have a super day
hello hd2000 so sorry to hear that she had to go and look, very insecure of her.... I had a s/o who went thru my phone with out my permission, if he would have asked i would have said yes and if you want to know about the person.... I have a few friends who text some pretty wild things.... he told me I could go threw his phone did not... maybe i am a liar I KNOW I AM NOT..... but i have not gone thru another's phone .... i agree it is private, if u don't have anything on there u are ashamed of or have secret pals shame on u u will get caught maybe not by the phone.... my x s/o new all about my friends on the phone infact i showed some of the things i was sent so no secrets..... Have a super day
Just last night!! We were all hanging out on the porch and I went inside to get something, came back out and my s/o was sitting there, my phone in hand, and all I could think about is if I had a recent text from Lazy in it still. lmfao. Lazy and I rarely talk, but it makes me feel guilty when we do - well, you all know how he is... innocent but not - anyway, why would I get mad at my s/o for looking when it is I -Me- that is guilty?
...... just saying.
Just last night!! We were all hanging out on the porch and I went inside to get something, came back out and my s/o was sitting there, my phone in hand, and all I could think about is if I had a recent text from Lazy in it still. lmfao. Lazy and I rarely talk, but it makes me feel guilty when we do - well, you all know how he is... innocent but not - anyway, why would I get mad at my s/o for looking when it is I -Me- that is guilty?
...... just saying.
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
Thanks Hd got to say this is a sad story and quite a turn around, I'm sorry it has worked out this way for you.
Quoting hd2000
update, oz, as requested. i was angry with her for a while and felt at the time i wanted out of the relationship. 10 days went by and (very surprisingly, based on past history of her communiques to me) no contact whatsoever from her. i ended up sending a series of texts and emails following her refusal to answer when i phoned her. after a few brief, and non committal replies from her she has now decided to end all contact. funnily enough, i have (to my surprise) missed her quite a lot. looks like i never realised just how much affection i really had for her.
Quoting hd2000
update, oz, as requested. i was angry with her for a while and felt at the time i wanted out of the relationship. 10 days went by and (very surprisingly, based on past history of her communiques to me) no contact whatsoever from her. i ended up sending a series of texts and emails following her refusal to answer when i phoned her. after a few brief, and non committal replies from her she has now decided to end all contact. funnily enough, i have (to my surprise) missed her quite a lot. looks like i never realised just how much affection i really had for her.
Thanks Hd got to say this is a sad story and quite a turn around, I'm sorry it has worked out this way for you.
Hey HD time for an update, did you repair this relationship and give her another chance?
update, oz, as requested. i was angry with her for a while and felt at the time i wanted out of the relationship. 10 days went by and (very surprisingly, based on past history of her communiques to me) no contact whatsoever from her. i ended up sending a series of texts and emails following her refusal to answer when i phoned her. after a few brief, and non committal replies from her she has now decided to end all contact. funnily enough, i have (to my surprise) missed her quite a lot. looks like i never realised just how much affection i really had for her.
Quoting ozredhead62
Hey HD time for an update, did you repair this relationship and give her another chance?
update, oz, as requested. i was angry with her for a while and felt at the time i wanted out of the relationship. 10 days went by and (very surprisingly, based on past history of her communiques to me) no contact whatsoever from her. i ended up sending a series of texts and emails following her refusal to answer when i phoned her. after a few brief, and non committal replies from her she has now decided to end all contact. funnily enough, i have (to my surprise) missed her quite a lot. looks like i never realised just how much affection i really had for her.
I'm sorry! You've been married for 12 years to someone that I can almost guarantee has fooled around on you. You have made it way too easy. Men are like children in some ways. Sorry Guys! You give them too much rope, and if they know for certain they won't get caught, at some point they are going to dip in to those waters. I got this information from men. It's nothing personal. No love. Just plain desire and an overwhelming need to be sneaky.
I'm sorry! You've been married for 12 years to someone that I can almost guarantee has fooled around on you. You have made it way too easy. Men are like children in some ways. Sorry Guys! You give them too much rope, and if they know for certain they won't get caught, at some point they are going to dip in to those waters. I got this information from men. It's nothing personal. No love. Just plain desire and an overwhelming need to be sneaky.
On point Oz... one should just be able to ask. Changing my perspective now. :-)
Quoting ozredhead62
Lol Amuse I did say I have been tempted, though never did. I have asked to look at or use their phone and if they dont want me to then that would certainly bring up issues. I agree that if you dont have anything to hide it should not be a problem, but I think that you can ask. I wont open my boyfriends mail unless given the ok and would not find it acceptable for him to do that to mine either. Communication is real important in a relationship and if you have this cant see why you could not just ask.
Quoting ozredhead62
Lol Amuse I did say I have been tempted, though never did. I have asked to look at or use their phone and if they dont want me to then that would certainly bring up issues. I agree that if you dont have anything to hide it should not be a problem, but I think that you can ask. I wont open my boyfriends mail unless given the ok and would not find it acceptable for him to do that to mine either. Communication is real important in a relationship and if you have this cant see why you could not just ask.
On point Oz... one should just be able to ask. Changing my perspective now. :-)
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
Lol Amuse I did say I have been tempted, though never did. I have asked to look at or use their phone and if they dont want me to then that would certainly bring up issues. I agree that if you dont have anything to hide it should not be a problem, but I think that you can ask. I wont open my boyfriends mail unless given the ok and would not find it acceptable for him to do that to mine either. Communication is real important in a relationship and if you have this cant see why you could not just ask.
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
Lol Amuse I did say I have been tempted, though never did. I have asked to look at or use their phone and if they dont want me to then that would certainly bring up issues. I agree that if you dont have anything to hide it should not be a problem, but I think that you can ask. I wont open my boyfriends mail unless given the ok and would not find it acceptable for him to do that to mine either. Communication is real important in a relationship and if you have this cant see why you could not just ask.
Ooooh Arrrrr them newfangled telly phone thingums .... we bain't got them there things 'ere in rural Engerland. But when I tried a-lookin over me fellers shoulder as he tied a messidge to a pigeons leg tother day 'e got a roight cob on 'im!
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
Quoting AmuseMe
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
Ooooh Arrrrr them newfangled telly phone thingums .... we bain't got them there things 'ere in rural Engerland. But when I tried a-lookin over me fellers shoulder as he tied a messidge to a pigeons leg tother day 'e got a roight cob on 'im!
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
HEY CG! Congrats on the wedded bliss!! I myself have been in a serious relationship for more than a year now with someone outside of online dating, no marriage proposal though. Happy to hear that you are doing wonderfully!!
Birdy, I don't know why you feel the need to try and insult me dang near every time we happen to cross paths on LF, but I guess it really doesn't matter one way or the other. You may say you have never looked through your man's phone - even if out of pure curiosity - and it may well be true for all I know... and now that I think about it, I have known you to be a single gal for more than four years now... so maybe your not up to speed on technology and what phones are capable of these days... especially how easily they can be used by prone cheaters to facilitate their bad behavior... perhaps if you were aware, you'd think differently.
For example, I ended a relationship with a gentleman I met through this site a few years ago - his name is John and I think I might have talked once about him - because I was sleeping over at his house one night and like a lot of bachelors he didn't have a clock anywhere in his house, so I open his cell phone to check the time and there was a text waiting plain as day from some chick that just "couldn't wait til their next date" or some crap. It happens, either by mistake or coincidence. I didn't go looking for damaging evidence, but I found it.
Same goes Oz, I still find it hard to believe you've never picked up a boyfriends phone for ANY reason and not looked through it.
It's like asking your significant other who they were just on the phone with and being told it's none of your business. Not acceptable for me.
Once you have entered into a serious relationship with someone, the more private they want to be about their phone records, internet history and so forth, the redder the waving flag!
I have let people look through my phone before... the fact of the matter is, if there was nothing to hide, there wouldn't be a problem with it!
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
Forgiveness should be instant, the thing you have to work on is trust for the future. If you refuse to forgive her then you will end up with a lot of bitterness and resentment as the past will always be there. Leave the past behind and look to the future. She has to prove to you that you can trust her.
Forgiveness should be instant, the thing you have to work on is trust for the future. If you refuse to forgive her then you will end up with a lot of bitterness and resentment as the past will always be there. Leave the past behind and look to the future. She has to prove to you that you can trust her.
Don't we all have some things on our phone that taken out of context looks bad? I guess my thoughts on your situation is that she is insecure about your faithfulness, maybe thru no fault of your own but obviously there are things in her past that cause her to crave reassurance. So while her tactic may not have been the best at least she gave you an opportunity to explain any messages she was questioning.
Whether you choose to continue with the relationship is up to you, but if you do I would suggest an open phone policy. If you both agree that in order to provide the element of reassurance she seems to need that you both have full access to each others phones (provided she doesn't turn psycho and start texting or calling people from your phonebook). If you show her you have nothing to hide and she feels free to ask about anything she is questioning it will help bond you two in trust. Personally, I've actually asked a guy a was seeing if he was ok with letting me look at his phone. Not so much so I could check on him as much as I wanted to see if he trusted me :)
Don't we all have some things on our phone that taken out of context looks bad? I guess my thoughts on your situation is that she is insecure about your faithfulness, maybe thru no fault of your own but obviously there are things in her past that cause her to crave reassurance. So while her tactic may not have been the best at least she gave you an opportunity to explain any messages she was questioning.
Whether you choose to continue with the relationship is up to you, but if you do I would suggest an open phone policy. If you both agree that in order to provide the element of reassurance she seems to need that you both have full access to each others phones (provided she doesn't turn psycho and start texting or calling people from your phonebook). If you show her you have nothing to hide and she feels free to ask about anything she is questioning it will help bond you two in trust. Personally, I've actually asked a guy a was seeing if he was ok with letting me look at his phone. Not so much so I could check on him as much as I wanted to see if he trusted me :)
Hey AmuseMe good to see you here, but going to have to say not all women or men are the same. I have never done that nor have I suspected that the man I'm dating might have either. Now I'm not saying I have not been tempted but not all temptations have to be given in to.
Quoting AmuseMe
Bull-Doodie. Every woman on here who claims to have never looked through someone's phone, especially a NEW lovers' is quite frankly a LIAR. They may feel badly about it, might not want to admit it, but they have done it! And ladies, don't flame me on this, you know it's true!
If you don't have anything to hide, don't act like you do! There is really no reason to get p*ssy about it, unless you are worried she's gonna find something you don't want her to!
Quoting AmuseMe
Bull-Doodie. Every woman on here who claims to have never looked through someone's phone, especially a NEW lovers' is quite frankly a LIAR. They may feel badly about it, might not want to admit it, but they have done it! And ladies, don't flame me on this, you know it's true!
If you don't have anything to hide, don't act like you do! There is really no reason to get p*ssy about it, unless you are worried she's gonna find something you don't want her to!
Hey AmuseMe good to see you here, but going to have to say not all women or men are the same. I have never done that nor have I suspected that the man I'm dating might have either. Now I'm not saying I have not been tempted but not all temptations have to be given in to.
Sorry AmuseMe but you shouldn't judge people by your own standards.
I have never done that - never felt the need to. Don't believe a guy has done it to me either - and let's face it if one had they'd likely find it hard to keep it secret!
Quoting AmuseMe
Bull-Doodie. Every woman on here who claims to have never looked through someone's phone, especially a NEW lovers' is quite frankly a LIAR. They may feel badly about it, might not want to admit it, but they have done it! And ladies, don't flame me on this, you know it's true!
If you don't have anything to hide, don't act like you do! There is really no reason to get p*ssy about it, unless you are worried she's gonna find something you don't want her to!
Quoting AmuseMe
Bull-Doodie. Every woman on here who claims to have never looked through someone's phone, especially a NEW lovers' is quite frankly a LIAR. They may feel badly about it, might not want to admit it, but they have done it! And ladies, don't flame me on this, you know it's true!
If you don't have anything to hide, don't act like you do! There is really no reason to get p*ssy about it, unless you are worried she's gonna find something you don't want her to!
Sorry AmuseMe but you shouldn't judge people by your own standards.
I have never done that - never felt the need to. Don't believe a guy has done it to me either - and let's face it if one had they'd likely find it hard to keep it secret!
